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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by RollerWolf, May 9, 2017.

  1. RollerWolf

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    Hello!

    I'm a 29 year old, who is almost certainly a lesbian... but is also married to a man. I only recently admitted this to myself and I feel weird writing it out and I'm terrified that I'm wrong about myself (even though this explains soooo much lol) and that I'm actually just a terrible person and bad at relationships. So uh yeah that's why I'm here I guess. Hi *waves*
     
  2. Worker Bee

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    Hi there. I'm Cam. Welcome to EC.

    The people here are friendly and supportive and it's a great place to talk to people from the whole rainbow spectrum and discover who you are in a safe and accepting environment.

    You are not a terrible person. There are many people here who have been where you are and can offer you advice.
     
  3. Worker Bee

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    Hi there. I'm Cam. Welcome to EC.

    The people here are friendly and supportive and it's a great place to talk to people from the whole rainbow spectrum and discover who you are in a safe and accepting environment.

    You are not a terrible person. There are many people here who have been where you are and can offer you advice.

    ---------- Post added 9th May 2017 at 02:45 PM ----------

    Not sure why that posted twice
     
  4. Brigianna

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    Hi :smilewave

    Welcome! I can relate to how you feel. Sooner or later we figure it out who we really are.

    (&&&)
     
  5. MaoKingofcats

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    Heyo welcome to EC! You're not a terrible person at all. People find out that their gender identity/sexuality is different at different times in their life and that's perfectly fine. If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me or use the Support Area ^3^
     
  6. Quantumreality

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    Hello RollerWolf! Welcome to EC!:slight_smile:
     
  7. pretty2017

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    Certainly you are not a terrible person, it can happen to anyone.