so. i didn't know where to put it, so i guess i could put it here. i didnt put up an avatar of myself because i was super scared of people identifying me as gay. But, i think im becoming more comfortable with that. i've been telling more people. still gotta work on my confidence a lot more, but hopefully thats coming along too. well, here I am... HELLO!
hi. good news it aint that clear of you prob delib move so i think your safe great that your confidence is increasing welldone
Hey that is how I felt. Congrats for you! When I first joined EC my avatar was R2D2 then something else. After a while I did not care and decided to use my picture.
Congrats on joining EC! Good luck with every step you take! As for the avatar thing, it don't matter. I like to think of them as a way of showing a bit of your personality and what you identify with. Welcome!
^^plus if your friends see you on this site, how will they explain what they were doing here? anyway congrats on getting more comfortable and welcome
Hello! As for me, I have my actual pic in my profile. I'm not worried about anyone finding me here. I've used that pic of my mountain bike for many different forums.
and what a nice pic it is as for the coming out on here as it were for fear beeing found, i woulent be too scared not much chance anyone i used to know is here and if they were its double jeopardy and if my mates look round gay forums and find me ... well guess im out lol i just dont have a pic as im fat and dont take a good photo lol
