Howdy. My name is Enya. I'm 16 (and 3/4). I'm pretty new to the site, so thought i'd just say a quick hello to everyone. So, in a nutshell, i've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 7months. He's an amazing guy. So supportive and loving.. he knows that i'm attracted to girls, but i don't know if it's more then that. I love him to bits but I don't know if im physically attracted to him. If i told him i wanted some time for figure things out it would break his heart. I don't know where to go from here. Any advice? (*hug*)
Hey welcome to EC. This is such a wonderful place. I have only been here for around two weeks , but it has helped me so much! Hope it will help you too.
Oh hai ^_^ welcome I think if you aren't sure if you're even attracted to him, then this relationship isnt likely to go anywhere and I would suggest you part ways, and take time to explore and decide what you like. Know it doesnt sound easy but that's just what sounds right to me. Best of luck figuring everything out x
Oooh Enya is a pretty name =D And I say, if you don't think you're physically attracted to him, I don't know how long that's gonna last, personally. But that's something you're gonna have to figure out for yourself, much as it sucks. =/ But anyhoo, welcome to EC! We're here to talk to when you need us. =D
*ahem* Velcome! (my accent is flawless) *edit* OH! ANOTHER PERSON FROM BC! *cheers* Go team! We are quite the gay province.
Hey welcome to EC im sure if you hang around here and chat to people we can help you figure things out.
as for your problem i would sort things in your mind first before takeing a step you cant undo. i would say maybe cool the relationship a little till your sure eitherway theres no need to urge him on encourageing him as it isnt fair to him. ill say just dont let this lingre too long as it will just make it more painfull when you do tell him, when u do ell him though make sure you tell him hes fine how it is you who isnt sure and he deserves someone who will love him as he will be thinking its his fault . take care x
