Hi everybody, Obviously, I'm new to EmptyClosets, and I just wanted to say hello. It's really a big step for me to join, as I've mostly been kind of dismissing my curiosity for other guys as nothing to worry/think about. It was kind of a slow realization that came to me over time as I more and more looked at other boys and though they were cute that I might not be completely straight. I myself have sort of accepted it by now, but I think it will be a long, long time before anyone else knows. In my mind, I sometimes even envision myself being 50, still in the closet, and married. The though of coming out is still so painful to think about that for now, thinking about never having to come out and live unhappily is more comforting. Alright, so I think that about does it for my first post. I really look forward to posting on this forum for a long, long time to come. P.S. I wish you guys could see the smile of relief on my face right now... :icon_bigg
Thanks! It does really feel good to chat with people who know that they're chatting with somebody still in the closet, if that makes any sense.
it TOTALLY does make sense... i found myself here when i joined for that reason. its a good feeling to know there are others who are going through a similar situation and know youre not alone
Hi there and welcome to EC. :smilewave I was in the same position when I joined, so I know exactly how you feel. Nice to meet you.
Hi and welcome to EC! EC is a great place for figuring out the next steps and getting ready for the coming out journey. Congratulations on accepting yourself! The first all important step is behind you!
Heya and welcome to our little family. It's wonderful to have you here Although I can't relate personally to what you're going through, I know from being around friends and the rest of EC that it takes time; it's not a race but the more steps you take, the easier it gets See you around!
Hi and welcome to EC You already have done the hardest part coming out to yourself. Congratulations for that ! I hope Ec will help you to come to term with your sexuality. Make yourself at home. Take care, Eleanor
My gosh, thanks for all the replies! I can already tell what a supportive community this is, and I can't wait to get to know you guys better!
