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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Lost Boy, Sep 21, 2009.

  1. Lost Boy

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    I can't believe I'm actually doing this...
    Umm... I'm a first year uni student whose going through some massive changes at the moment... including this confusion about my sexuality.
    I've never really had feelings for guys before... but there are times when I find them attractive... saying that there's this girl that i've had feelings for ages but i'm not sure i'm attracted to her... it's really confusing...
    I have no one that I can talk to about this kind of stuff so it would be good to hear from people who are experiencing or have been through this kind of thing before.
    Well hope you guys can help me out.

    Lost Boy
     
  2. Mirko

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    Hi and welcome to EC! :slight_smile: Congratulations on joining EC and wanting to talk. You have already taken an important step. EC is a great place to figure things out. Feel free to post whatever you want or need to talk about. I'm sure you will get to know a few members in no time! Welcome aboard.
     
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    Welcome to EC. :smilewave

    I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for here, as we've all been in a similar position at one point or another. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC! :smilewave
     
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    Welcome! You've taken the first step, now keep walking!

    The first thing I thought of with this title was the phrase from Caddyshack said by Rodney Dangerfield...
     
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    welcome to ec !
     
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    Hey, yeh we all get confused at times. Hopefully you'll be able to figure it out and end up confortable with your decision. Many of us are here to help if you want to talk :slight_smile:
     
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    hey welcome to EC
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC from Jim in Toronto! You've come to the right place.
     
  10. kyvoice

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    Welcome to EC!!! I am a newbie too and I am so glad that we can talk about our feelings on this great website...CONGRATS
     
  11. Lost Boy

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    Hey guys I just wanted to say thanks for the welcoming and the encouraging messages. Its good to know I'm not alone.
     
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    Welcome to EC! Remember you are never alone. :slight_smile:
     
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    im here.
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    Hey welcome to EC
     
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    Heya, welcome to the family, it's great to have you here :slight_smile: We can help and advice and hopefully some fun along the way. Congrats for admitting your true feelings to yourself, the first step's always the hardest :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC!