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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Windmills, Apr 11, 2010.

  1. Windmills

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    Hey everyone!
    My name's Sam. I'm 22 and 1.5 months away from finishing college in upstate NY. I am currently 100% closeted, but that's why I'm here. I first admitted to myself that I am gay about 2 years ago, but in order to avoid fully accepting it, I stayed busy enough that I rarely thought about it. With graduation looming, I've been forced to think about my future, and ignoring the truth is no longer enough. I decided to join to take that first step for myself and to make sure that I keep moving forward.

    I look forward to getting to know y'all
    Sam
     
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    Welcome to EC Sam!
     
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    Hi Sam and welcome to Empty Closets. Enjoy your visits! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Sam and welcome to EC! :smilewave
     
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    Hey welcome to EC
     
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    Welcome to EC! =)
     
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    Welcome Sam!!!!
     
  9. Windmills

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    Thanks, everyone, for the warm welcomes!
     
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    Hey, Sam,

    Welcome to EC and congrats on taking this step for yourself! It's a daunting task for most people to think about coming out because, perhaps more than almost anything else, it requires opening ourselves up to vulnerability and judgment from the people closest to us.

    I hope you'll spend a bunch of time here, discuss your concerns, ask questions, and find a sense of comfort and acceptance that so many others have here. :slight_smile: Please feel free to IM me or any of the other advisors or staff if you have anything you'd like to talk about in a less public way.

    In any case, welcome once again, and enjoy your time here!
     
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    hey Sam welcome to Ec
     
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    Hi Sam and welcome to EC from Jim in Toronto!
     
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    Hi Sam! Welcome to EC! You've certainly come to the right place at the right time in your life. Ask questions and let people help you through this - you may end up amazed at where you'll come out of this experience!