So, i've never really gotten on to one of these types of things.... I'm a female 18, my name is ariel... i am here for support... my family is having issues with this...anyone have advice? its gotten so bad they're making me question everything...
Hi Ariel, and welcome to EC! (I love the name by the way!) We're here to help if you need it! A post in the "Support and Advice" section will get you started I think (although, a bit more detail than "this" is needed, I think ), or just hang out in the fun and games areas if you want to get comfortable first! (*hug*)
Hi, Ariel, and welcome to EC. This is a wonderful and supportive community, and there are lots of people having the same issues you are. Tell us a little more about what's going on, and you'll get better advice. How long since you came out to them? What sort of problems are they having? How old are you? All of those things play into the issues of how best to deal with the problems. The short answer is, many parents have difficulties with their child's coming out because it is often something new, puzzling, and therefore, the natural tendency is to be afraid of it. Once they get a handle on it, and you, and realize you're the same person you've always been... it won't be an issue for them.
hello and welcome. Your family will have to come around. Being gay isn't a phase or a fad. its part of who you are. You've come out to them now you might have to make it clear that isn't going away. They are going to have to deal. You're 18...you're an adult you know what you want. They need to realize this, don't question who you are. you already know.
Hi Ariel. Welcome to EC. I hope hanging out here and being able to talk about this with us is helpful to you. It sure was for me. It's natural for your parents to be concerned about their children. And it's tough for them to stop making decisions for them as they age. So give them time to come to terms with this.
