Hi, I'm a guy who I guess is into both genders. Sadly, I am closeted. I am starting college this fall and though I've officially been a member for a while I finally decided to post here
Hi, Mahou! I'm really glad you decided to de-lurk and start posting. It takes a lot to admit, even on an internet forum, something that you've been feeling for a long time. And I'm sure there's some combination of anxiousness and excitement about posting about it, so taking that step is a great start. Going to college is great. You have the opportunity to completely re-invent who you are. And college students are all in the place of spreading their wings, experimenting with all sorts of different things, opening themselves up... so even at more conservative schools, acceptance of GLBT people is typically very, very high. I know quite a few people who remained tightly in the closet in high school, and flung the closet doors wide open very soon after going to college. There's no need for you to do that if you don't want to, but it is definitely an option. I also know people who stayed in the closet all through college, or timidly tiptoed out during college... all of those are appropriate to the individual. In the meantime, between now and then, try and post some more. Talk about your concerns, fears, worries. Make use of the EC community to help you become more comfortable and confident about who you are. And feel free to message me, or any of the other advisors if you'd like to talk in a less public environment. Anyway... stick around and get to know the community, and let us get to know you!
This is a great place for you to begin your discernment. I hope university is a great experience for you. I hope you find what you need here. Peace, Mike
hey, i'm new here and wanted to say hello. it is always a good thing to know that one isn't alone. i am trying to find out who i am at this late age and am glad you have that. good luck in your college endeavor. peace popper
