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I love you all but...

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by RaRa, Jan 12, 2011.

  1. RaRa

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    I need a break from everything. Including EC. These past 2 days have been the worst of my entire life. From small, trivial things all the way up to my best friend being hospitalized and one of my past addictions resurfacing. We might also have to put down the family dog so he can't even help me through this. By just being there.

    I always tried to be happy and jokey on EC, and even in life, but there's a point where I just can't take it. I can't fake being happy anymore.

    I don't know how long I'll be gone for. I'll miss all of you. I never liked long goodbyes. Please take care.
     
  2. Shebbs

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    :frowning2: I love you Raffi-kins. <3
    You know where to find me if you ever wanna talk. <3 Always here for you babe.

    hugs and kisses. <3
     
  3. Eleanor Rigby

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    I'm sorry that you're having such a bad time Raffi (*hug*). If you need a break from EC it's completly fine, take all the time you need. But keep in mind that you don't have to behave happy and jokey on EC either. We do enjoy your company when you're in your nice happy mood, but we do want to be there for you when things are not doing good either and when you need support.
    Happy Raffi or sad Raffi, we love you just the same.
    If you ever need to talk about what's going on, you're very welcome to PM me either here or on facebook.
    Take care of yourself :kiss:, Cécile
     
  4. Z3ni

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    Reaally?

    I haven't talked to you before but.. you seemed like a happy guy :/

    Anyway take care :slight_smile:
     
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    Sorry to hear things haven't been going so well lately Raffi. (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*)

    Cécile is right. You don't always have to be happy here, in fact that's what EC is for. If things get too bad to handle on your own then we'll all be here to help.

    Take all the time you need, and until then we'll be waiting right here when you come back. (*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*) I'm sorry that you've been dealt some bad hands recently Raffi. I know what you mean about being all like happy and stuff on EC. You really don't have to, just be yourself. If u ever need to talk u know where to find me. Take all the time you need (*hug*)(*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*)we're always here for you man, i hope for the best(*hug*)
     
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    I hope everything works out for you Raff (*hug*)
     
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    Raffi, I hope it clears up for you! I'll be sending positive vibes your way. Take care yourself (*hug*)
     
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    We'll miss you Raffi... one hopes that you will return soon...
     
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    Nooooo! One of the only BlueStaters I was friends with!!!
    In all seriousness...good luck Raffi. Hope it all works out well for you buddy.
    You are a good guy with a good heart. Take care of yourself.
     
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    :frowning2:

    I hope you can come back soon(*hug*)

    I love you Ra(*hug*)
     
  13. RaRa

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    Ok. Shit. First I wanna say thank you everyone for the responses. <3 I'm happy to report that both my friend AND dog are both safe and sound at home now, and I'm only smoking a pack a day (I know it sounds bad but you should've seen my when I left here...). Anyways. :grin: So yeah.

    Also..I think I made everyone think that I'm all depresso (my way of saying depressed :slight_smile:) most of the time when I'm the opposite. :slight_smile: It's just that this time there was so much shit to deal with so I couldn't be happy. So I'M FINE. Thank you. <3 lol
     
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    Aww, Raffi. Well I'm new, so I don't really know you. I hope everything will work out, and I'm sure it will. It's good to hear your friend and doggy are doing well after all. =]