I am but i'm not, i've been lingering/loitering for a while now and finally made up my mind to join (i'm kinda indecisive sometimes) . i'm not really social in the normal sense (depends on who's definition of normal) in small groups i'm fine, in larger groups i'll be the quiet one. i'm very social in my town (because everyone knows everyone. i'm still debating on whether or not i'm straight or bi cause i find i'm only attracted to like really effeminate or girly guys but i would hate to be seen with them unless i was in like san francisco or like when i go up to chicago. otherwise down here i'm your average bigoted redneck bible thump'n hater (with a few secrets, i'm kinda like a self hating gay it depends on who i'm with or who's around) so nice to meet ya'll oh i kinda replayed to that email is that a bad thing?