Hey! This is my first post, even though I registered in 2010. I don’t know why I am writing this now, but I guess I am as confused as I was last year. I am a 20 yo girl, I grew up being attracted to the opposite sex but a while ago I've started being attracted to women also. I remember first having thoughts about women when I was in high school, but I stopped thinking about it. I’ve had one relationship with a man since then, but for the last few months I’ve found myself thinking a lot about being with women, physically and emotionally. I feel like I would love to be with someone who understands me better. Is this normal? I don’t know what normal is, but I am still confused and in need of advice. Thank you and I hope I will find some like-minded people here. Have a great day!
Welcome to the posting side EC! What you are feeling is definitely normal. It sounds like you are starting to accept yourself and the fact that you like women, so keep at it
Hellur and welcome to EC! it is normal to want to be with someone who understands you, its one of the first major things that women tend to look for in a relationship. and who has to define normal? why can't we all be who we just want to be? normality isn't all that fun, but it does have to happen in situations through out life. but when your on your on and not working and what not, kick back and be yourself.
Firstly you are perfectly normal. It is only natural to be confused and possibly scared at finding out that you may be attracted to the same sex, it seems foreign. As others have said you have started taking little steps in the right direction. Stick around EC and you will soon figure it all out.
