Hi all Obviously I'm new here, I'm from SA, been gay for a few years, told my closest friends, then my closeish friends, then pretty much all my friends, now its just the people I don't really know who don't know, and my parents.. But I'm changing that on saturday!! yip, I'm about to come out but that's a thread for another time I hope to make new friends ^_^
Thanks, I will! I've been working on an Email for my dad for after I tell him. my family is the strict Christian Afrikaans type, South Africans will understand
Wow, that's so great!! Hope that you start to feel at home here in no time! (I'm sure you will) ^-^(*hug*)
Hey, a fellow South African! Strict Afrikaans type? Sounds like my dad's family, so I can relate. Hope it all turned out alright. ((hugs)) <3
hey!!! im South African too, congrats for having the guts to come out to your folks man, u have my respect! my mom is afrikaans and stil living back home and im in Australia with my dad ( im still in the closet), my mom refers to gays as "confused" so yeah thats gonna be a tough alk to have. good luck hey!
Greetings from Bloemfontein. Used to sit in the same boat as you, trotse Boer Afrikaanse parents and all. They just realised that they needed a change of thinking, seeing as their eldest took a lot more interest in the less-than-fairer sex than usual. Anyhow, I hope it works out! ---------- Post added 4th Oct 2011 at 05:50 AM ---------- Greetings from Bloemfontein. Used to sit in the same boat as you, trotse Boer Afrikaanse parents and all. They just realised that they needed a change of thinking, seeing as their eldest took a lot more interest in the less-than-fairer sex than usual. Anyhow, I hope it works out!
Hiiiiiiiiiiii! Be careful there in South Africa, I don't know where you're located specifically but it seems there might be a serial killer in Johannesburg targeting gay men. You're probably nowhere near there, but I just wanted you to be cognizant of it. GayNZ.com SA: serial killer may be targeting gay men Situational awareness!
Johannesburg is pretty much the centre of everything around here. Serial killer targeting gay men? This is insane. *hides under bed*