I just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Char. I came out very young, age 14, and have been very sexually active all my life. I have dealt with all of the issues you are dealing with at a time when being gay was not acceptable. I was even rejected and disowned by my parents at age 14 and still made a very successful life for myself. You can do it, too. I joined here so that I can help others learn how to live a successful and productively happy gay life. If I can help you in any way, please, just ask me.