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Hi! I'm kind of lost.

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Annabanana227, Nov 21, 2011.

  1. Annabanana227

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    I'm 21 years old, female. I am in my senior year of college and I am just beginning to come to terms with the fact that I think I might be bisexual. I'm definitely still into guys. But I think I might be into girls too. And I have lots of gay/lesbian friends, I just never really thought I was anything but straight.. I go to a REALLY open-minded school that is very accepting of all types of "alternative lifestyles." We have a really big lgbt community on campus, so you'd think I would be willing to confide in someone there, but I can't really think of someone I would feel comfortable talking to about this. So I guess I'll just start here and see what happens. I've never been with a girl.. I don't really know how to describe it, and even just re-reading this that I'm writing right now is really weird for me. This is kind of a new thing happening to me (at least being aware of it is new) I just would like to talk to people about their own experiences coming to terms with their sexuality and what it was like to become aware of your sexuality.. I hope I'm making sense..
     
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    Hi Annabanana227!!! Welcome so much to EC! (*hug*) It's so great that you were able to find us! What you're going thru can be kind of scary, but many of us know exactly how you feel, myself inculded. Dont hesitate to ust be yourself & you can always ask whatever you want here, everyone is so amazing & helpful & supportive! (&&&)
     
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    Hello and Welcome!!

    You made perfect sense, I'm sure that this site will help you. I was in the same situation as you not too long ago, but this site helped me sort through my thoughts.
     
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    Bienvenue!! :smilewave
     
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    Hello and welcome.
     
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    Hello! Welcome!
     
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    Heyo, welcome to EC!
     
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    Bonvenon! I hope we can all help you out. Some of your friends have probably been in your situation, and it sounds like you can definitely talk to them. Go for it!
     
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    Hey there! Your story makes complete sense. In fact, I'm in the same situation. My advice is, find someone you trust, and talk about it. Good luck! We're all here for you. (*hug*)
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.