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really need some coming out help

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by itsserinn, Dec 11, 2011.

  1. itsserinn

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    hi, so this is me taking the first step towards happiness. i've known that i am bisexual for a long time, about two years now. this girl came into my life in 2009 and completely changed it. she was bisexual and i had never met someone who was bisexual. but she was the most beautiful girl i had ever met. and we soon became close friends. we began to text each other quite frequently and she soon revealed that she had a crush on me. i told her that i had a crush on her too. i had never been in a serious relationship so when we first became a couple, it was a little weird. but i quickly began falling head over heals for her. she broke up with me about three months in because her ex boyfriend wanted her back. i was devastated. we were still friends but it was hard for me to be just friends with her. about a year later she wanted to give us another try. being a little more mature, i was more in touch with my feelings. we were together for a few months before i started falling in love with her. we broke up again due to distance becoming a barrier between us. we still talk and she was considering giving us another shot now that i have my license. but i turned her down remembering the heartache i felt after each break up. i still love her and i always will but it's time to move on. i just don't know how to do that when i am only out to my friends and two family members. my parents make a lot of gay jokes which offends me a lot. but lately i have found myself questioning whether i might be a lesbian or not. so i am so confused and really need my mom when i feel like this. i am so scared to come out to her and i don't know if i am ready. but i think that talking to others who are in the same place as me would help. so this is me, asking for help. :help:
     
  2. silverhalo

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    Well you have definately come to the right place. Do you think that if you come out to your Mother she will react badly?