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Old 14th Dec 2011, 05:59 AM   #1
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Hey im chris and im pretty much new to this site. i joined because i hate being alone with the fact that im gay and i havent come out to anyone, i guess its hard because i dont believe that my family would be very accepting. i suffer from social anxiety so i find it very difficult to get out of the house and make some friends, i suppose it would be easier to have a friend to come out to rather than a member of my family. another reason i joined was to make some friends, i know it only online but its better than having no friends at all.
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 06:54 AM   #2
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Hello, ChrisJ, and welcome to EC.

Guess what? You just came out to everyone here on EC. And the thing is, we're all still strangers to you. That took quite some courage on your part. Coming out does not have to be something you're afraid of doing, it doesn't have to be something you have to do right this very minute. You set the particulars of your own Coming out. When, where and whoever you tell is your decision.
If you're having difficulty with something, or just need some advice, don't hesitate to ask.

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Old 14th Dec 2011, 07:20 AM   #3
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Default Re: Hi!!! :)

I agree joining the site and posting is a scary thing when you don't know what to expect! But you'll be happy to know that everyone, or at least that I've spoken to are friendly!

If you need advice or just a friend please wall post me!
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 07:52 AM   #4
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Sorry to hear about your situation. Everyone here is very friendly and supportive.

As AM said, you set the terms of your coming out process: you decide where, when and how you're going to do it. Look in the support forums if you need help or advice, or you're always welcome to talk to me.

Hope you find EC useful, safe and most of all fun

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Old 14th Dec 2011, 11:05 AM   #5
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 11:39 AM   #6
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Heyo, welcome to EC!
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 11:43 AM   #7
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 12:39 PM   #8
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 01:02 PM   #9
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Default Re: Hi!!! :)

Well now know you aren't alone(:

Welcome to EC, by the way.

And like someone (I think more said it, too) said, you just came out to everyone on here. Complete strangers...congrats .

I haven't been here for a week yet, but it seems like a great place to be! I really hope you enjoy being on here and "find the courage" to come out to people you know in real life. And about the family thing...well we're here as support. At least that's how it seems so far.

Well, again, welcome to EC(:
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 02:30 PM   #10
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hi chris! welcome to the site. I hope you like it here.
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 02:38 PM   #11
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Hi Chris and welcome to EC!
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 04:43 PM   #12
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 05:22 PM   #13
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Hey there! You're not alone anymore
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Old 14th Dec 2011, 09:41 PM   #14
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Hi and welcome!
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Old 15th Dec 2011, 01:02 AM   #15
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Old 24th Dec 2011, 01:40 AM   #16
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Hey Chris, welcome to EC!
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Old 24th Dec 2011, 02:13 AM   #17
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Hey welcome to EC.
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Old 29th Dec 2011, 11:10 AM   #18
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Default hi chrisj

hi chrisj!im new to this site also.im looking tomake friends with a few people on ec.i told my mom that i was a lesbian but it still didnt fit.i mean it made me feel better but something still didnt fit.i waitwd and thought and figured out that i was a boy in a girls body......whats your story?
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Old 29th Dec 2011, 12:03 PM   #19
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Old 29th Dec 2011, 12:41 PM   #20
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Welcome to the forum!

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