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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by lambdamama, Feb 23, 2012.

  1. lambdamama

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    Hi, I'm new, I'm scared, I'm liberated, I'm 36, I'm a mother of two toddler girls, I'm still married, I'm not out to my husband yet, I'm in love with the most wonderful woman in the world. That's me....still figuring it all out
     
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    Welcome to EC! There are some other married people on here who I'm sure you'll be able to talk with. :newcolor:
     
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    Heyo, welcome to EC!
     
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    Hello and Welcome!!
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.
     
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    thank you all for the warm welcome. This is such a liberating, scary time for me. I am most worried about the effects on my daughters. I'll be utilizing the resources and advice of those in my position
     
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    Im sure they will be fine, they are young hopefully that will help.
     
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    Hello, welcome to EC!
     
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    Hi and welcome!
     
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    Hi,

    Welcome and good luck. This seems to be a very supportive group. I am sure that you will find many people to share good and bed with.

    Clay
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC! :smilewave

    I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for here. There are some others here who are married as well, so feel free to post any threads on questions you might have. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there, and welcome to EC! :slight_smile: It's great that you have joined the site. Everything has a time and place. Every step that you take in figuring things out for yourself, will help you to move forward. As Gerry mentioned, there are a few members who have been married and have been in a similar situation, and might be able to provide you with some peer support and insights. (*hug*)
     
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    Konichiwa! Welcome to EC, you'll love it here, this place has helped everyone so much, myself included! :grin:
     
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    Bienvenue! :smilewave

    Yay, another Floridian! :grin:
     
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    Hey :smilewave welcome to EC.
     
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    thank you all! I'm heading to SF next month to visit my love. It's a complicated situation. I have my "plan" (a loose one). I'm married to a VERY republican, army, right wing person. I'm afraid if my moves aren't calculated correctly, there might be a fight as far as the children go. There are many times I just want to scream at him that I'M GAY DAMMIT! That's why I won't even kiss you! I've dropped so manyhints but subtlety (obviously) is not the answer.

    It will all come together....very very soon.
     
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    Hello, and welcome to EC, Lambdamama. :slight_smile:
     
  18. hellooo :slight_smile:
    welcome (*hug*)
     
  19. lambdamama

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    thank you....really, thank you (*hug*)