Hey everyone. Im a 14 year old male (soon to be 15) and very confused. I joined a while back but haven't really used it much until this afternoon. I don't know what my sexuality is and hope to discover it here ! Im not very attractive and have never shared even a kiss with either sex so feel quite lonely. Be great to make some new friends on here. Thanks for reading
Hi and welcome! I'm sure you'll find a lot of awesome advice and help with questions here! When I first joined I got more insight on a lot of questions I have had for years but didn't know who to ask. You're in good hands friend! (*hug*)
Hi and welcome back. It's nothing out of the ordinary to be in your situation. You don't have much to go on being so young and new to everything. Take your time and just be you. Everything else will fall into place. Good luck and I look forward to hearing about your journey.
Welcome! It's always hard to just jump in and start posting but you've already taken the plunge so... tell us a little bit more. What is making you question yourself and your attractions? If you talk a little more about what's going on it will be easier to give you feedback.
Well i feel very lonely and haven't had chance to experience anything with any gender. I'm fairly big chap both weight and height (6 foot 4). I don't find myself attractive at all. I have had a lot of family problems throughout my early years and this led me to comfort eat putting me in this position.
Hi and welcome to EC! It's great that you have decided to begin posting and talking/writing about your feelings. It's okay to have the feelings that you are experiencing at the moment. It's part of figuring things out, and trying to understand yourself. Try taking note of the feelings and attractions that you are experiencing. Over time, feelings and attractions will become clearer. If you feel an attraction to someone, maybe try taking it to the next step and talk with the person. Sorry to hear you have had family problems. Just because your 6 foot 4, that doesn't mean that you are not attractive. Different people will find different things attractive. Now, if you feel that you would like to get into shape and it could help you to feel better about yourself, try doing that. Do you have any hobbies? Is there a sport or activity that you like?
The problem is i want to loose weight but im a A/A* target grade across the board (accept pe :L) so need to focus solely on exams. Also I have little willpower because i think i wont look attractive thin or or fat.
hi welcome aboard with all of us. i too joined jus a day bfore and found this place so good. you can always talk to us about all your problems. we ll share ours with you and we can all help each other you take ur time to discover urself there is no hurry . share all your confusions and worries with us may be we ll have some common ones and cn solve it together perhaps
Hi there! To lose weight you don't need to spend a lot of time on it. Regular moderate exercise can help in losing weight. Even a walk of 30/45 minutes a day can help. Your diet also plays a role. Cut out all of the unhealthy, high calorie foods, and instead replace them with healthier alternatives. Part of accepting yourself for who you are entails being able to like yourself. Ask yourself, "is there one thing that I like about myself?" It doesn't matter what it is. Start building on that. Try to develop some self-esteem in pursuing the things you like doing, and which gives you a sense of fulfillment.
Hey. Welcome to EC!!! Yeah you will find lots of good advice and people on here who will help you anyway they can. I only joined a few days ago and have already got insight into things I didn't even think about.
