Hello everyone. I've lurked here a few times, but felt compelled to finally register today and introduce myself - it's time for me to do this. I'm a 40 year-old guy, married to a woman for almost 20 years. We have two daughters, eight and 16. I love my three ladies more than life itself. Not to get into too much detail in an introduction, but I am trying to come to terms with my bisexuality and weigh the value of coming out to my family against the price of the pain and turmoil that that will bring. I'm looking forward to sharing the details of my story here, discussing what I am facing, and ultimately figuring out how to best handle this with my family.
Welcome! You're far from alone, there are quite a few guys in their 40s and 50s and older here, many of whom are going through the same things you're dealing with. I think you'll find this a helpful and welcoming community that should help you on your journey. Feel free to share anything you would like to!
Welcome to EC! :smilewave By the way Papagoose is a cool name! It sounds like an awesome band or something
Hey! Glad that you love your family so much - my guess is that they love you just as much, and that will make all the difference as things move along. Reach out when you need some advice/support!