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.....so here I am confused and a little worried

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Dreamsaremadeof, Jun 7, 2012.

  1. Dreamsaremadeof

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    Hello all! My name is Destiy I'm 15 about to be 16 in October. Last year I finally accepted I was bisexual. I have tried multiple times to tell my mom by dropping hints becouse my moms a huge homophobe. I am also a Christian and my church "frowns apon" bisexual ppl so that's anger ting I'm worried about. I have told y friends from school starting with my closest friends and working my way out. I plan to tell my mom at my sweet 16 in October so that I have all my friends there for support. I wanted to have my girlfriend there with me but I think that would kinda be putting to much on her at once. I have to do it one thing at a time lol. So wish me luck :slight_smile:(&&&)
     
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    Hello and welcome!!
     
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    First of all, welcome to EC. I hope you like it here. Good luck with coming out to your mom. Keep us posted :slight_smile:
    hugs! (*hug*)
     
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    Heyo, welcome to EC!
     
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    Welcome Destiny. :slight_smile: I'm a newbie just like you.
     
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    Hello, Dreasmaremadeof, and welcome to EC. :slight_smile:

    Also, Good luck. :thumbsup:
     
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    Hiiiiiii :slight_smile: welcome to EC :welcome:
    about coming out to your mother, I think you should do it in more private place but this is just my idea :slight_smile: you can chek EC more about it or even you can create a post in Thread in Support and Advice
    and take look at this link too :slight_smile: I think there is a lot ther you can read :slight_smile: esp about Coming out to parents and Being LGBT and Christian :slight_smile:
    http://emptyclosets.com/forum/support-advice/12090-support-advice-resources.html
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.
     
  9. Christopher

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    Greetings Destiny,

    I can understand your apprehension about the issues surrounding you but try to reflect and realise that just our trials and tribulations come to us, they can and do disappear at exactly the same speed never to trouble us again.

    Remember, nothing but nothing stays the same.

    Enjoy EC and be happy !

    Best wishes,


    CHRIS