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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by hunter, Jul 2, 2012.

  1. hunter

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    Well uh, my name is Hunter. I'm really questioning my sexual orientation.
    I came out as lesbian about a few months ago, told all my close friends.. my two best guy friends, Jordan and Andrew. I was totally comfortable and happy. I'm sort of in a pickle now. I've always known that I liked girls more. I've only fell in love with a girl before. I've had several girlfriends and I know I like girls for a fact. However, I've known Andrew for almost a year and when Jordan started growing apart from us we started hanging out more. As it turns out, he had feelings for me and I felt I'd give it a try. I did and I've never been happier. I don't necessarily love penis, really. I feel as if I'm obligated to accept it though. I accept him for everything because I'm in love with the kid and this feels so weird. I talked to Andrew about it and I told him that if it weren't for him, I wouldn't be with guys period. So, I'm not bisexual. I know this. I'm not really "lesbian" right now either.. I'd just love to hear some feedback and anyone who was in this similar situation. Just really looking for some support right now. Thanks. :thumbsup:
     
  2. Mercy

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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile: what an interesting story may i ask how old the both of u are ?
     
  3. hunter

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    Hey, Thanks. :slight_smile:
    Well, I'm a senior in high school and he's going to be a sophomore if that clarifies.
     
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    awh it does
     
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    You may not necessarily be into guys, but that doesnt mean anything really. Try not to focus too much on the labels, like 'lesbian', 'bisexual', etc. Some people are pansexual, & just fall for who they fall for, regardless of gender, and sometimes some gay women do form deep relationships with a man, but it doesnt make them any less gay for having dated a man. Just go with how you feel about Andrew & forget all the label nonsense, it's more or other people to make sense of things anyway. If you both care about each other, thats all that matters anyway! :grin: Hope this helps!

    And btw, welcome so much to EC hunter!!! (&&&)
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.
     
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    Hello, Hunter, and welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! Thank you for clarifying your problem as it is the same with mine. Only the opposite genders. I just did not know how to word it.
     
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    Heyo, welcome to EC!
     
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    hello, yeah iv had that same experiance if you ever need to talk, im always here!! :grin: xx
     
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    Welcome!! :slight_smile:
     
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    Bienvenue! :smilewave
     
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    Hello and Welcome!!
     
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    Howdy! Welcome to EC! :grin: