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Old 5th Aug 2012, 09:47 PM   #1
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Hello all,

Well its taken all of 42 years to come to terms with what i am. I only dated chicks and no dudes (trying to be macho!). However, between dreams and eye contact i seem to be admiring both sex's which has been interesting. Ive always knew but kept that side safely secure. Anyway, there it is.

Oh i notice several dudes who stare and one brought me in a cupcake he baked with his homemade icing! What do we think this is, me availing myself or my aura changed? Ive never had this happen? lol i know i sound silly.

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Old 5th Aug 2012, 10:06 PM   #2
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hey there. you'll find lots of people like you on here. please, enjoy yourself on EC
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Hi and welcome. They say a way to a man's heart is through his stomach, maybe that's what he thought, to get to your heart. LOLz
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Old 6th Aug 2012, 05:46 AM   #11
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Thanks for the hello,s. as to my name listed just me being silly. People actually do like me it's funny. @thylvin I said the samething while eating it and got weirded out . Anyway thanks. This is a step I suppose.
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I hope it tasted good at least.
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Old 6th Aug 2012, 06:34 PM   #14
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The Cupcake was deliscous, however i had a conversation with the guy and blah blah blah he has a girlfriend. Go figure. However, he still stares so ive stoped staring back and gone on with my pathetic macho act. lol im not fooling anyone!

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Have you considered that the guy might be in the closet himself?
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Old 7th Aug 2012, 10:19 AM   #16
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Old 7th Aug 2012, 10:55 AM   #17
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@thylvn at this point I am not so sure. He just might be like me. But regardless I'm not prepared to get involve with a guy right now. I have to get over this shame shit.

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Yeah i know what you mean, if you don't feel ready, then your not.
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My biggest problem is I'm kind of mental wreck because i am trying to deal with this. Yet I've done nothing to help the siruation but join this website which I found accidentally. Ive been reding people's stories and such and this has caused mental distress crying like a baby. Which I feel is pathethic! Anyway, the other problem is I'm damn horny! Lol there's this other dude that I know is gay and likes me, this is no doubt. I can see it happen, say I do get with him and we get it on, I'd have to break it up cause I cant give what he would normaly want. So Im not going to do it, which leaves me horny.

I don't know whAt my point is now . I think I just wanted to post this I suppose!

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Old 8th Aug 2012, 12:01 AM   #20
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hehehe, if you're horny, there's nothing better than Mr. Palmer and his five sons. but i know what you mean lol It's kind of frustrating, mentally you don't feel right yet for a relationship, but like your body is screaming for something, even casual something LOL
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