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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by GDUSA, Aug 10, 2012.

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  1. GDUSA

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    Hi guys and gals, my name on here is GDUSA since I'm not completely out yet. I'm in my mid-20s, masculine, gay and living in the USA. I came out to a few close buddies who I trusted over the past year. I'm working on coming out to the other people who are close to me in the future. Definately not just going to run around saying that I'm gay to everybody. I used to call myself bisexual but I found out that I was attracted to dudes more than women. I still am attracted to some women but I am into guy more. I wasn't bisexual just to hide that I was gay. I realized from online websites that there are other masculine gay guys out there which has helped in my acceptance. If any of you would like to talk, definately message me.
     
    #1 GDUSA, Aug 10, 2012
  2. Bobbgooduk

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    Hello and welcome GDUSA :smilewave
     
    #2 Bobbgooduk, Aug 11, 2012
  3. Lance

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    Hey, welcome. There are plenty of gay guys out there like yourself, just a bit harder to spot. :icon_wink
     
    #3 Lance, Aug 11, 2012
  4. lonewolf77

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    Hello and welcome. Im pretty much in the same boat you are.
     
    #4 lonewolf77, Aug 11, 2012
  5. GDUSA

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    Thanks guys. Totally agree with you that there are guys like me out there but harder to find. I sometimes just wish that they would be easier to spot.
     
    #5 GDUSA, Aug 11, 2012
  6. thylvin

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    Yeah, its kinda frustrating. But hi and a warm welcome to EC.
     
    #6 thylvin, Aug 11, 2012
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :grin:
     
    #7 itsjoanna, Aug 11, 2012
  8. zeratul

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    It doesn't matter if they're hard to spot. Give people a nice smile and your best of intentions if they deserve it, and if it's meant to happen, it will happen.
     
    #8 zeratul, Aug 11, 2012
  9. Gallatin

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    Bienvenue! :smilewave
     
    #9 Gallatin, Aug 11, 2012
  10. Robert

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    Welcome.

    What do you mean by "masculine"? Outline some of your 'masculine' qualities for us.


    :slight_smile::slight_smile:
     
    #10 Robert, Aug 11, 2012
  11. BradThePug

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    Hello and Welcome!!
     
    #11 BradThePug, Aug 11, 2012
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    #12 Pret Allez, Aug 11, 2012
  13. GDUSA

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    I have nothing against fem guys. Me personally would rather date somebody who is a guy and acts like one since I'm gay or else I'd just date a women. That's how I stand on that.

     
    #13 GDUSA, Dec 15, 2012
  14. WilliamM

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    Feel the same way lol welcome to EC
     
    #14 WilliamM, Dec 15, 2012
  15. jdeb1992

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    Hey- I'm bi and the few people who I've come out to say it was a total surprise to them. The gay sterotype is just a sterotype.
     
    #15 jdeb1992, Dec 15, 2012
  16. GDUSA

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    Yeah to ppl I came out to it was a surprise too. I told them I am never going to change just you know I like guys. I'm not going to go crazy about that I'm gay b/c I'm still the same person that I was before.

    Thanks all for the kind welcomes!



    ---------- Post added 15th Dec 2012 at 09:59 PM ----------

    Be cool to meet a guy that is into sports and only masculine type guys are into that. Aren't I right?
     
    #16 GDUSA, Dec 15, 2012
  17. Given To Fly

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    Hey :slight_smile:

    :welcome: to EC! (edit just seen you've been here months lol)

    I consider myself quite masculine too - hate stereotypes :frowning2:
     
    #17 Given To Fly, Dec 16, 2012
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    Hey, welcome to EC!
     
    #18 AaronMed, Dec 16, 2012
  19. Ticklish Fish

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    Hello hi!

    we have several of these masculine/fem debate/discussion in the past, but since this is introductory thread, not gonna say too much, haha.

    I hope you don't just call any women who do sports also masculine lol

    <-see no gender/fem/masculinity in sports and fitness
     
    #19 Ticklish Fish, Dec 16, 2012
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    Welcome!
     
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