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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by TheSmooze, Aug 31, 2012.

  1. TheSmooze

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    Hey everyone... It's The Smooze here.

    Hmmm well where to start... I'm 18 years old, I consider myself genderqueer (even though I don't look the part) as I feel more female than male inside - I'm an asexual and I've been in straight relationships, but I struggled alot with intimacy - for some reason, being with girls just didn't feel right. I really love the idea of being with a man in a romantic fashion, I can just see myself as being able to be more romantic and passionate with a man, rather than a woman - I feel as if I'd just be able to talk to a man better, and open up more. I have Aspergers Syndrome so sexuality and attraction has always been confusing to me, and in all honesty I have no idea where I am at the moment in that respect. I hope that here I can discover myself and understand myself alot better.

    Anyway, I guess I should talk about my hobbies or something, uhm, I love watching cartoons (mainly Adventure Time, Friendship Is Magic, The Regular Show) and I am a very massive music fan, I have a fixation on electronic dance music and it's history. I'm also a big fan of psychedelic music and Alt/Indie rock.
    I'm very socially awkward, I've always been a very shy person, typing this even makes me nervous, so bear with me if I seem a little bit clumsy.
    Thank you for reading! Peace out! -TheSmooze.
     
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    welcome The Smooze nice to have you with us :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.
     
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    Bienvenue! :smilewave
     
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    Welcome to EC!
    Lately I'm getting into alt/indie rock myself, any bands you could suggest me?
     
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    Hello, and welcome to EC, TheSmooze. :slight_smile: