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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Tamrc, Oct 20, 2012.

  1. Tamrc

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    I want to say hi. Not sure I am 'out' - but was raised with strict religious background and am struggling with family acceptance & self acceptance. I guess I am searching for a friend to talk with me through this.
     
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    (*hug*) hello & welcome. if you need to talk, there's me & plenty of people on EC w/ more joining almost daily. we're very glad to have you here (&&&)
     
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    Hello and Welcome!!
     
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    Hello and welcome! maybe you can say a little more about yourself and your situation?
     
  6. Tamrc

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    More about me What was the name of those books we talked about yesterday my situation....I have two kids. Divorced. Share a home with my mother as she cannot afford to live alone. I have recently come to the realization I am a lesbian. I have a wonderful gf. I have been programmed to believe in the rigid doctorine of theology that I will go to hell. In my heart I feel that God made me this way and will love me. Just at a loss.
     
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    Welcome. A lot of people here are struggling with trying to reconcile their feelings with a strict religious background so your definitely not alone in that regard. I'm sure any of them would be willing to talk to you, not to mention those that have made peace with it.

    Hope you find what you're looking for :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.
     
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    I had a catholic upbringing so understand how you feel and the issue of guilt. Guilt is a form of control used by religion to keep the faithful locked in. You CAN have faith without guilt.

    Don't be afraid to be yourself and have your faith if you wish. Your God may not be as judgemental as you think.

    Welcome to EC
     
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