I was just reading some of the recent introduction posts, and wow...I came away with two strong feelings: 1) this is a great group of people, and 2) I'm so old! I'm 33 years old, and never would have thought I'd still be struggling with my identity like this. I'm sexually attracted to men and women, but probably more men--certainly I am completely nervous around women, particularly with making the first move. I love to travel the world (I'm from the US but I'm in Asia now), books, film, web development, entrepreneurship. It's just this one very important part of my life is a pretty big mess. I have done a lot of cool things in life and I have to remind myself of that pretty often as this stuff takes a toll on my self-esteem, or at least my nerves. It finally just now occurred to me today that I should try to seek out other guys who are in the same boat. The hardest part about all this is the loneliness, after all. Thank you to everyone who created this forum.
Welcome to EC! I found myself on this site (just recently) for the same reason. I felt isolated regarding my sexuality because no one knows (pratically). Don't feel old. I'm close behind ya!
Welcome to EC. I have been on here just about one week, and I love it. I am kinda in the same boat you are in luckily lots of good company in that boat!! At first I thought I was Asexual then Bisexual then gay back to bisexual. So I have decided not to use any labels and just go wherever the wind blows me. Just remember you do not need a label!
