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  1. Laughlin

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    Hi there All
    So today is my birthday and i have decided to use the day to set up a profile here to chat with guys hopefully. I have know for a while that i like guys and over the last month i have begun to accept it ,,, it would be cool to talk with guys in a similar position please
     
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    Happy Birthday !!! Welcome to EC! I have accept it but still not dating anyone yet so I am not all the way there yet.
     
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    thanks man , for taking the time to reply, ya i know just want to be happy now
     
    #3 Laughlin, Nov 1, 2012
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    your welcome ,I know it's been a long time since have have been truly happy without faking it, hopefully by my next Bday I will be out and start to be happy again. If you ever need to talk someone is always online or you can message me.
     
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  5. Laughlin

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    that would be cool mate as at them omen i have no one to talk to and i am not sure what to do
     
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    LIke I said I'm here ,is there a specific issue can help you with or just talk to you about ?
     
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    well I'm not sure what to do with my feelings bro ,,, spent a night at best mates friends house ,,, and i did something i should prob not have done and not I'm afraid he will tell me mate
     
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    Does he know what you did ?
     
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    nope man not yet ,, but i presume the guy will tell him ,
     
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    Okay, now I understand. Well you could talk to him about it before someone could tell him, but I don't think that you wanted to do it . right ?
    If that is not an option. Try Writing in a book to get your feelings out as that will help you.
     
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    yap i don't want to tell him ,, think my feelings are in overload at the moment ,, really want to talk to the guy again and explain it was my first time etc,,, but then i don't want to as i am afraid things will get really mottled with my mate if he finds out ,, oh there is just so much going on and i don't know what to do mate
     
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    If you want to talk to the guy an explain it was your first time, I would talk I don't think he will tell your other friend, as he is in the same boat as you are in by something together.
     
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    the only problem is i need to get his number from my mate ,,,
     
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    OH I see, can you get off Facebook? if not just ask your friend for his number. just be like "person" was really cool was his number or something like that would work.
     
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    not sure if that would sound alarm bells as my mate knows he is gay and me looking for his number would be weird ,, I'm such an idiot
     
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    Don't call yourself an idiot.
    Does he know you are gay/bi ?
     
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    nope man ,, it was my first experience. I was out with my best mate drinking , we missed our bus home , so he called his mate and asked if we could stay the night, i never met him before , my best mate slept in his bed and i slept on the floor with his mate, durning the night ,not sure what came over me but i moved my hand over to his sleeping bag and then all of a sudden he pushed my hand inside his arm and onto his heart,, we slept like this for a couple of hours , i woke then and seen him looking into my eyes ,,, wasn't to sure what to do ,, next he moved my hand up on his neck

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    sorry bud but your the first guy i have spoken to about this ,,,
     
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    Okay. If you know were he lives you could just go to his place and talk to him about this and see what happens.
    It's fine don't
     
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    thanks bro ,,,
     
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    anytime I would thing workout with your friends =)
     
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