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Confused and Seeking, Howdy howdy (Late-ish)

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by putresVigil, Nov 4, 2012.

  1. putresVigil

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    Yeah, not sure why I only now noticed this whole section several days after posting and tooling around this site. Guess perception is my dump stat. Anyways, I am here because I am learning stuff about myself that has made it clear I am not what you would call hetero-normative, I guess. I used to say I was mostly heterosexual but I am pretty sure if the primary people you fantasize about having romantic pairings with are feminine guys then the fact that they are guys trumps their femininity. Even if they dress feminine. Or so I found out from the horrified people who found my sketchbook diary.

    Gah, I am a bit of a mess. That said, maybe I can help others who feel the same or find someone who understands what I am. I am too old not to have figured this out already, or so I sometimes feel. Anyways, salutations.
     
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    Well, welcome to EC and I'm sure you'll be alright with yourself very soon :slight_smile: x
     
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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
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    Also new here, but good to have you onboard.
     
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    Welcome, :slight_smile: Hope you find what your looking for. We're all really supportive here so if you have any questions just ask. ^^ I'm sure someone will have an answer for you.
     
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    Hello and Welcome!!
     
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