Just wanted to say hi :smilewave to everyone. I found this site when searching for information on anal sex. I found the information and format to be very well done and inviting and decied this would be my first site of this nature to join. A little about me, I just turned 50, wow still scary to say that, at the end of Oct. I am married and my does know about my questioning. She came out to me several years ago telling me she is Bi. I have two kid, neither know about me and my questioning. I have had thoughts about this for many years and over the last year or so have really started to strugle with it. I slowly started to talk with my wife and with the help from a mentor at work have become a little more confortable with it. My mentor is also gay. I have done some personal exploring by different means, fingers, items and dildos. I'm still not a 100% sure and that is one reason I sign up here. Besides my wife, felt this was a good place to get information, ask questions and get some good advice. Thank you for having and hope I can be as beneficial to the site and I'm sure you guys will be.