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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by yes, Nov 17, 2012.

  1. yes

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    hi everyone,

    i'm new, obviously :icon_wink i'm a guy, am in the uk, at university,
    thought i'd join this site, it's not that i recently woke up one day and realised i'm not straight, i've known that for ages (i'm in my late teens now) but it hasn't bothered me, really, up until recently.
    it just feels lonely, cause i left for uni and the people i used to hang out with most of them were bi and such and it wasn't that i really ever came out it was just obvious and now i've made new friends at uni and no one knows i'm not straight - people guess at it occasionally but not my friends - that'd be rude of them to ask i guess, and i just don't want people to view me differently from any other guy, i don't want my friends to be uncomfortable around me like if i hug a guy he's gonna be like ew!
    anyhow i'm in love with this guy, i haven't been in love before just had crushes, and it's kind of what my life now centres around, i'm really quite obsessed with him, it's making me miserable and no one knows cause it's a bloke ...

    anyway that's it, thanks for reading :slight_smile:
     
  2. BradThePug

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  3. Jayareh

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    Hello, Yes. Welocme here.
     
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    What's going on. Welcome!
     
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    Welcome to the forums! Uni is definitely an exciting time for lgbt people. Chances are (unlike sometimes in high school) that people are more mature once they are in uni and are more likelly to accept you for who you are. Take your time with it, but once you feel comfortable telling your peers, by all mean :slight_smile:
     
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    A very warm welcome to you! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
  9. yes

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    thanks for the welcome everyone! :slight_smile: