Hi there. :smilewave I'm new to this forum. I'm 34, and just now finally coming to terms with the fact that I am most definitely not straight. I've always kind of known...that little voice in the back of my head questioning things all along...but I've never paid attention to it. About a year ago, I came out to my therapist. He was the first person I'd ever told that I had these thoughts. He smiled and said, "so THAT'S what this is all about, huh?" I'm still struggling with it a bit, and I've since only told one other person (who had a similar reaction). For now, I'm happy with that. It's nice to meet everyone.
Thanks. And thanks, Bravefeather. It's an ever evolving story...someday I'll get to a place where I'm comfortable and at ease with this. Right now, it causes me a lot of stress and anxiety.
Hi there! The more people you come out to, the better you'll feel. But there is no rush, the most important thing is to take it at your own pace. Welcome to the forums ^_^
I figured it was like ripping off a band aid. I just need some time to sort out some stuff. I'm very attracted to women at the moment, but for a long time it was men. So, it's almost like I'm waiting for it to switch back to men again so I can just marry one and not have to come out to my family. I know that's stupid...I've been told as much. I don't know. Won't work right now because there's very little I'm finding attractive about a man right now. I seem to go through these cycles. I'm never attracted to both genders...one or the other. Soooo confusing.
Wow I bet that is confusing! You should be happy that you're coming to understand it though! There's nothing better than learning about yourself if you ask me. I think being unique is one of the greatest things anyone can ask for; we're all unique to some level, but the more unique qualities you have, the better you can define yourself right?
Welcome. As a fellow bisexual I know what you mean about the "switch back". Most of the time I'm open to both but I go through stretches where I prefer one over the other pretty heavily. Then, for seemingly no reason it'll switch. It was confusing for me at first.
I think most people are some degree of bisexual. I consider myself a lesbian but I was very attracted to one guy in 8th grade! I too have hoped I would just "go back" to liking men, but no worries dear, just be happy with yourself and you'll find peace. We'll help you out on here. (*hug*)
