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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Hugh, Feb 19, 2008.

  1. Hugh

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    My name is Hugh and I'm a mature gay guy thinking of coming out..or maybe not!! I suspect I'm the least brave person here. Possibly the oldest as well!! Just when I think I'll do it, I stop. I'll write a long rambling text to a close friend and my finger can never quite press the 'send' button! I'm on loads of websites, but only gay ones...one day I expect to be outed but that's an awful thing to do and I'd rather beat them to it! Any messages of support are always welcome!! XXXXX
     
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    Howdy Hugh! I must admit I was slightly frightened seeing a Hugh here considering my dad's name is Hugh. Silly, but there's nothing wrong with that!

    Welcome Aboard
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    Thanks Josh! You'll be thrilled to know that Minneapolis and I are complete strangers!!
     
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    Hi Hugh! Glad to have you here!
     
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    welcome to EC!
     
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    Broken hearts as well as shoelaces?? I think I'm going to like EC...it's great to find a site where the purpose has nothing to do with having sleazey sex with a stranger!! It really is comforting!
     
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    well....maybe these shoelaces meant a lot to you....or you want to know where to buy new ones...

    :icon_bigg
     
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    Hey Hugh....
    Well, there's at least one person older than me, so you may not win on that one...
    Welcome; I'm the house transwoman from Southern California, USA
    xo D
     
  9. Hugh

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    well....maybe these shoelaces meant a lot to you....or you want to know where to buy new ones...

    :icon_bigg[/QUOTE]

    Well, yes, they were my converse ones and they were kind of special. The heart is much older than the laces so fixing it can be a problem- just can't get the parts. Unlike the laces!
     
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    Well what a relief!! I'm feeling better all the time!!
     
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    yea.....the heart requires like valves and chambers if you want a quick fix....with a long term fix, heart needs love.

    <3 <3 <3
     
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    Well how true...it's very sweet of you to appreciate the facts! Thanks!! Well it's late over here, so it must be bed time...have a really beautiful evening!!
     
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    I love to get meassages...send loads!!!
     
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    but spelling is always a problem!!!
     
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    haha

    hmmmm....now i just need to think of what to put in one of those messages that you love to get...
     
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    Hugh You're a brave guy for checking in to EC .No sleazy sex here but a lot of caring and support. If you're older than me then you are Really old but probably wiser.:thumbsup:
     
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    Thanks for the support - a few more people know I'm gay which was the point in the first place - even if it is only on line!! It gives me more confidence all the time!!
     
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    Welcome to EC, enjoy your stay here and good luck with the coming out process!
     
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    It's the great Hugh Mongous :grin:
    LOL
     
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    Welcome to EC.
    *gives Hugh some skittles*

    Enjoy your stay.