1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

hi.... kinda feminine-ish..... i think....

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by VyreRain, Jan 4, 2013.

  1. VyreRain

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 1, 2013
    Messages:
    105
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Haworth, OK
    Hey is it weird that I'm kinda feminine and I like feminine guys.......I dunno and Dunn say I'm an idiot on this thread I know.
     
  2. Given To Fly

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 22, 2012
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Birmingham, UK
    Nothing weird about it. You are who you are, and we all have our own preferences, after all!
     
  3. Eatthechildren

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 9, 2012
    Messages:
    569
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    London
    Nothing weird with liking what you like :slight_smile: It's not like you're hurting anyone~
     
  4. IkeaMonkey

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 11, 2012
    Messages:
    79
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Toronto
    Gender:
    Female
    You've been calling yourself an idiot a lot. You're totally not, dude. (*hug*) And it's not weird at all.
     
  5. VyreRain

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 1, 2013
    Messages:
    105
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Haworth, OK
    Well I am an idiot..... Ive never had a relationship last more than a week.... Bc I'm an idiot. Secondly I'm an idiot Bc I'm probably never going to meet another gay guy in the place I'm living. I live with my parents, in a place where I'm already bated and if I came out of the closet I'd be overkilled. Christians..... what with their hell and all
     
  6. Deaf Not Blind

    Joined:
    Apr 13, 2012
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    WA DC
    Gender:
    Male
    Nope, I am Christian, mom is, many of the peeps I came out to in college are...so far so good! Give the individual credit, don't judge them all as same...that is prejudice.
     
  7. Sacha

    Sacha Guest

    Joined:
    Dec 24, 2012
    Messages:
    42
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Obviously this one has never read the bible. ^^^^
     
  8. Koan

    Koan Guest

    Nothing wrong with femininity in men. I have some of that too.

    Welcome to EC!
     
  9. gggualigeee

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2013
    Messages:
    44
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    China
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    Me too. the profile pic is myself.
    I don't like this kind of feeling, either.
    but I have nothing I can do to change this.
    the problem is that girls like masculine boys, so do a lot of gays.
    sorry for being narcissistic. I hope you like me. (kidding!)
     
    #9 gggualigeee, Jan 6, 2013
    Last edited: Jan 6, 2013
  10. Ianthe

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 3, 2011
    Messages:
    2,760
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Oregon
    There is nothing wrong with you for being feminine or for liking guys who are feminine.

    You might find that you are harassed less when you have come out. If people think you are gay and in the closet, they will perceive that as something you are ashamed of that they can harass you about successfully. It's impossible to be sure, but sometimes when you are open and confident about who you are, people don't feel so much like they have an easy target.

    And, if it's as bad as you say, you should consider moving somewhere more accepting.
     
  11. VyreRain

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 1, 2013
    Messages:
    105
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Haworth, OK
    Would but I don't have any money I cant get a job .... I'm 20 yrs old and I don't have a liscense I have a diploma but all the jobs are far away from here.... I'm considering applying oversea for work in like Afghanistan or India.
     
  12. gggualigeee

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2013
    Messages:
    44
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    China
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    I don't know your situation, I think you can come to China to teach English, if you are a native speaker.
     
  13. Madgeisgod

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2013
    Messages:
    7
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Scotland, UK
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Welcome. :slight_smile:

    I'm like that too. I wear makeup, carry a hairbrush, always carry lipbalms etc and sometimes I wear perrfume. I don't know why but it just feels normal. :slight_smile: