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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by BearyBoo99, Jan 24, 2013.

  1. BearyBoo99

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    Hey guys. I'm really new to this kinda thing, i just want to meet other people who are going threw what i am. My friends arent supportive and i'm still hidden from my parents. :/ Its really going to be hard for them to understand my chose because they always (and still do) imagine me walking down at my wedding and seeing a guy....... Not to mention that fact that i am so young!
     
  2. Kay

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    Hi and welcome to EC!!!
    There is nothing wrong with being lesbian and people in your life will deal with it if you do.
    They and you can imagine a wedding between you and so other young woman. The dreams are unchanged only the players. It's good that you have discovered yourself early on and can get on with life. Sorry your friends are not supportive.
    :icon_sad: You will make new friends who are of common mind. It may take time but this will happen. There is no rush to tell anyone. First be comfortable with who you are then move forward. Hugs
     
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    Hey and welcome #,#
     
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    Hi, Welcome to EC! I agree with Kay! I think you are more out than I am, so congratulations to you for that!
     
  5. BearyBoo99

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    Thanks guys :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi! :slight_smile:

    :welcome: to EC!
     
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    Hey welcome to EC :grin:
     
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    welcome to EC :grin:
     
  9. Welcome to EC! :smilewave
    Ditto @ Kay, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being Lesbian! (*hug*)
     
  10. Cecil

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    I can understand the friends not being supportive. I went through hell and back with teasing and abuse in high school. But here is the good news: you will find better friends who are supportive and may even find others who are of like minded as you are. So don't let your current 'friends' discourage you!
     
  11. BearyBoo99

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    Thanks. Most of my friends (well the 3 that know) have been great. But I have a lot of homophobic friends and I do get worried about the abuse because I recently lost a friend of mine (he was openly gay) . He took his own life because of the bully... :/
    But I'm sure it will be better (maybe?)