Hello I am new here and just wanted to salute this site for all it does to contribute a diverse voice to online society. My struggle with sexuality is not self-acceptance...when you have known since age 6/7 that other males can attract and be attracted by you, you kinda just deal with it. I always have had the luxury of being 'cloaked' in heterosexuality. Became a young and stupid father at 19. Then a married and proud father at 26....and THEN a non-married father at 31. I know, so many stereotypes smh. Needless to say, i am not the whoring type and i dont have sex with multiple women in same time periods at all. Nor do I explore much of a "bisexual" lifestyle. My sameSeX experience has been based on isolated incidents with friends. A few times back in college in '95-98, a few different times with three different buddies growing up '88-'95, and more recently in past two years a few times with a friend who is basically openly gay. But now, oh my, i have a roommate who is straight but flirts with me so bad its startn to hurt my heart cuz its like a torment in a sense....look out for upcoming blog posts! God bless