After lurking in the forum for some months now I've decided to join up. During this time I began to accept that who I'll love won't depend on their gender or much on their appearance (However there's got to be some attraction) but more on how the act in front on me personally,others publically and everything else in between. I want to know the person before I'll learn to love them, just like I want to know more about you guys. I'll probably just post asking how you guys feel on certain topics. Thanks for all your help