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Please help, I feel like I'm going mad/well madder.

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  1. LoveMusicPoetry

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    Hi all, I'm a bit new to this, so please be gentle. I am currently experiencing serious questions about my sexuality: In a nut shell, I have been married for ten years, but I find myself seriously attracted to women, in a, not at all interested in men, only in women kind of way. I am at the point now where I need to aknowledge my feelings and I really need people to talk to about it.:confused::help: That's pretty much it really.
     
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  2. Ianthe

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    Hi, Welcome to Empty Closets!

    Feel free to post in Support and Advice about your situation. You will mostly get greetings here, and if you post in support and advice, you will get more and better input about your situation.

    Does your husband know anything about what's going on with you?
     
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  3. LoveMusicPoetry

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    Hello, no, god no, absolutely not. I'm not really in a position to do a lot atm, think I have to give it some time before I tell him, I don't think he'd be very impressed. I will post in the advice section, thank you x
     
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    You came to right place to work this through, welcome to EC!
     
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    Big welcome!

    You don`t have to be worried around here, this is a supportive bunch, who`ll be able to relate to how you feel.

    :slight_smile:
     
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  6. LoveMusicPoetry

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    Thanks for that folks. I'm in one of those positions atm where I can't practically do anything about it, but I do wanna talk about it, probably to an insainly annoying degree. I need to find out where all these hot, available lesbians are, that's what I need to do.
     
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    Lol, yeah, hot available lesbians can be hard to find, but they`re out there.
    Hotness comes from the inside though :icon_wink So, be careful about not seeing the tree for all the forest :lol:
     
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    Seeing, lol yeah, that's my problem. I have bad eyes, so it means next to fuck all to me anyway, which is probably better when dealing with matters of the heart...not so useful for getting around though lol.
     
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    Welcome to EC. :grin:
     
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    On the bright side, you`re more likely to end up with a nice person who you can enjoy being with, as your priorities will be different from certain others out there :wink: Besides, sex doesn`t require that much vision anyhow :lol:

    You should get one of those super-smart dogs. Not only can they help you get around, women are suckers for cute canines :wink: They say lesbians prefer cats, but I say that`s BS ... (great, now someone is probably going to start a cats VS dogs thread/argument somewhere, lol)

    Again, welcome to EC :grin: Some of us (me mostly) might seem a little odd, but we`re all OK :icon_bigg
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
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    Hi - That was me exactly in Sept! I have a husband and children. I know what you are going through - like you are jumping out of a plane without a parachute. I was lucky to find a lesbian friend to come-out to & she was a huge support.
    Coming out as women with families is so complicated. We need to worry about our own needs & the needs/emotions/well-being of our husband and children.
     
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    Courage shows up at times when we least expect it! Hang in there!

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    No kidding! People recognize me as "the lady who walks the Greyhounds!" People love dogs and will talk with the humans after they pet the dog. Nice warmer upper.
     
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    Welcome to EC sweetheart :slight_smile:
     
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