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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by ShadowMoon85, Mar 7, 2013.

  1. ShadowMoon85

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    Hello Just found this site, lol so wished I had a long while ago. I'm bisexual male who prefers the male side, though due to family pressures I am ITC (in the closet). 28 Yrs old and in a small town in cali with not many who are uh, open minded. Hoping this place will be my little haven to talk about things and just be a lot more myself.

    ~Shadow~
     
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    Hey Man Welcome :smilewave

    yup most of us are in the same boat, im 26 and only my best mate and his "Mrs" know
    its really good on here...

    its given me an inside of how most LGBT people are and stuff...

    i always thought gays were real girly and divaish and being on here has made me realise that not all of them are... only thing is its difficult to meet up with people to hang and kick back...

    anyways take a look around read the forums and Welcome once again

    Peace
     
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    ok curious here... how do you get to ask someone to meet??

    btw im new here too so hello up there lol ♥

    i would really love to meet someone in reality,
    no one around me knows that i like guys too so yea im hiding from everyone specialy my family, would really love to meet someone seriously... i never done anything with any guy befor and its eya.... x_x never even knew any in real life....

    but i would like to though.... but not one of them girl acting types...
    "no offence to anyone" :confused:
     
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    hey im in the same boat as you in some way...

    i dont know any one personally who swings... and im dying to meet up with people to hang with, you know for a game of pool or a drink etc...

    dont think gays like me very much and the one's i do see are real girly and such a turn off...
     
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    Lol I had also thought that too, but that only confused me, I liked guys but I would like to play Call of duty screaming at the Evil camping players..... while camping with a sniper >.>
    Took a while to understand being Bi
    I found it so hard since I would hear they are just horny people and other less kind things. SO I did not know whether I was straight or Gay, at the time I did not really know of Bisexuality. but After a VERY long conversation with myself (talks to self often ^^) I decided I just liked everyone, and would date to how I feel and just say screw it to labels lol.
    ... All the while keeping a straight mask on for my family.
    lol You know what I can say it here
    "ASHLEY GREENE and JACKSON RATHEBONE are so sexy. ^^ ALONG with HEATH LEDGER (rip, I so cried when I heard that)

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    It depends about the uh lol "girlyness" sometimes its really cute. The ones I have a problem with are the hardcore "I should scream it at my family and be proud!" types @.@
    I'm not ashamed of it I just don't need to stress my Family. Though they don't understand that
     
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    lol... that some funny stuff man... yeah i love huntng and fishing and used to think maybe im not gay enough lol... i say im gay but ive not done anything with guys aside from the one time i played gay chicken with friend lolzzz i still like to get down with the ladies but always been curious about guys... but then when i see two guys make out i get all weird and disgusted lol... one of the guys i work out with at the gym is gay and he's real girly and its gross (no offence to any one )

    ps: i talk to my self all the time too... lol i blame it on being an only child
     
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    I like talking to myself because I rarely agree with myself.
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
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    Welcome to EC. :grin: