Hi! I am new here though this is not my first post. I mostly wanna say hi to all of you and thanks to those of you that gave me advice so far. After the advice I received, I gained a new perspective on my situation and I actually ended up meeting a girl that I really like. And she likes me too and wants to get to know me. She lives about an hour away, but I can work with that. The point is, without a group of people giving me some advice that's legitimately helpful, I'd still be freaking out and trying to have my life figured out right now instead of just liking who I like and going with the flow. Thank you for listening to me.
I love Portal And yeah, it was hard for me to accept that I can be attracted to someone and love them without having sex with them. It helped me realize that it's not about sex and that even though it may be important, I need to just love who I love and worry about the sex, if at all.
Good for you I just didnt really know anyone who was gay apart from my cousin and I was scared of how I felt (convinced myself it was a phase for at least two years). But now I like who I am and really wouldnt change it - still in the closet though, gotta work on that
I had this friend who went through sort of the same thing I did and even though she'd enjoyed sex with guys, she's a lesbian. So of course I thought that was a possibility and I thought I'd do the same thing she did cause I thought that would be the only way to find out but whether I'm bi or gay or pansexual or whatever doesn't matter at the moment. I gotta just go with the flow.
Cool way to live I'm trying to just go with the flow but everytime I try to come out to someone, all that goes through my head is the consequences it could have
I've always considered myself bi (or pan. At one point I thought I was a lesbian and who knows..) but I've never been afraid of it. I've always just been "Yeah, I like girls. A lot. Do you give a fuck? Cause I don't! Yay titties!" I'm so tacky XD And howdy
Yeah I guess I dont really give a fuck any more about who I am or who I like, I just dont want to tell anyone because it would make my school life hell.