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Now you see me

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Obscurity, May 2, 2013.

  1. Obscurity

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    Because...I'm here.

    I usually am really great about writing up introductions, but I am being especially shy. I don't tell that many people about my sexuality because it seems no matter what group knows, I'm not welcome.

    I guess I should back up and explain a little. I've considered myself bisexual since high school, but I'm probably more pansexual. I have found myself attracted to women, men, and transgenders. That seems all open-minded and gushy, but it's actually pretty hard to admit.

    I feel that people have this misconception that any type of multisexuality is a fad, can't be real, is a sign of indecisiveness, etc. I used to think I would be safe admitting my sexuality to homosexuals, since they undergo distrust and hate, as well. Unfortunately, that is not always the case.

    That is why I have not come out to many people, and definitely not my family. They are pretty closed-minded Christians, and I have no doubt that my father and sister, at least, would never talk to me again.

    Anyway, I guess I'll wrap this up, since I'm sort of just rambling self-consciously now.
     
  2. Dublin Boy

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    Hi Obscurity :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Well here she is...my partner of over 10 years married...and lovin it

    welcome to EC
     
  4. Obscurity

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    Thanks, Dublin.
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
  6. Obscurity

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    Aww, you're so grumpy catish! <3 I love grumpy cat. n.n