Hey everyone I'm a fourteen year old British kid... I came out to my immediate family in April last year I then came out to a few friends over the ensuing months, until bravely stating it on fb... It has gone down well with most people, it's a shame that some people are just absolute twats... I'm musical, artistic and high achieving but I now find it impossible to concentrate all the time and am planning to see a psychiatrist at some point soOn due to various problems. I dont want to bore you. I have a hAbit of getting myself into the most difficult situations possible. I am still unsure about my gender identity but I feel that labeling myself as anything other than male, at least for the moment, would cause too much stress and difficulty for many including myself. I'm effeminate but mot your typical gay guy. I'm sure this community will be helpful and you will get to know me better through the problems I present you with :/
I'm sure I will enjoy it here. I feel as if I em embarking upOn a new part of my life ---------- Post added 6th May 2013 at 11:41 PM ---------- HEY TJ <3 you toooooo
Welcome to EC. Please to dont feel the need to classify yourself as "effeminate, but not the typical gay guy". Its no better than stating that you are "female, but not the typical housewife". Most women are not simply housewives, and most feminine men are not the rude and conceited monsters we are portrayed as by society. If we fall into the practice of specifying ourselves, we automatically encourage their generalizations as truths.
Oh yeah also I have the annoying habit of apologising for everything ... I don't mean to, just ignore it ---------- Post added 6th May 2013 at 11:48 PM ---------- I'm 100% sure it will, it being full of people in the same situations
I have now only one person in real life with whom I can have a <3 to <3 ,, that is why ec is gonna be so useful!!!!!!!!
Oh sh*t just realised how rude it was of me not to tell you my nammeeee??!!!! I'm Oscar by the wayyy x
Hi Oscar! It's a please to meet you. I see you're from across the pond. Very cool! Welcome to EC. Do you have one of those cool British accents we Americans love so much?
Hahah I guess I dooo ... I'm not like proper posh but I'm not chavvy, I have a kinda high pitched middle class south London voicee
