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  1. BadCanadaJoke

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    Hey... My name's john and i think i am gay. I have been in denial my whole life,maybe. And i say maybe because i have started to come out on my self only recently. Even being here makes me super scared and i don't know what to think anymore. I am very confused and just need some people to talk to. I don't know any gay people enough to talk to(lie! i know one but if i talk to him he'll probably tell the whole town.maybe). I just feel like i can't come out to anyone if i'm not sure....I have noone to talk to and i grew up in a very small town,where everybody knows each others problems etc and i'm scared to even mention anything...
    Boohoohoo i know.... Well yeah....
    Just hoping to meet some helpful ppl...
     
    #1 BadCanadaJoke, May 18, 2013
  2. Candace

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    Hello, and welcome to EC! Pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:

    You came to the right place. No need to fear.
     
    #2 Candace, May 18, 2013
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    thanks.:slight_smile:
     
    #3 BadCanadaJoke, May 18, 2013
  4. bagginses

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    Welcome to EC John. I live in a really Gossipy environment, so if one person knew you were gay ever one else did too.

    At the moment I managed enough courage to tell two of my closest friends, other than that everyone else around me is clueless.

    My point is that being scared is a part of the process, hell I'm still scared right now. It takes time to except who you are, but its good to realize it at an early age because you don't want to grow old and unhappy because you never got to tell people who you really are.

    Message me if you want to talk about it a little bit more. I feel that we may have more in common than I think. (^_^)
     
    #4 bagginses, May 18, 2013
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    thanks for the support!
    i'm super scared and confused about who i am etc.... Hope i can pull through.....
    (also bag it says i can't pm you. I tried but it won't let me. sth about advisors and experts or whatever)
     
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  6. bagginses

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    Oh Seriously? Never had that problem before.:eek:

    Well just write on my wall then ^_^.(*hug*)
     
    #6 bagginses, May 18, 2013
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    Welcome to EC dude. Sounds like you LIVE in a high school haha. People knowing everything about everyone and what not. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Much support can be found here. <3 Happy to meet you.
     
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    Thnx a lot...Well, you could say my city is a huuge high school yes:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:P
    I am just discovering what exactly i am or not... Cause i've either been on denial my whole life or i'm bi...Dk...
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
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    Hi johnchrys :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Hey and welcome to EC. Woo Hoo!
     
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    Thnx everyone!
     
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    Welcome to EC :grin: You've come to the right place. There's a lot of great loving, supportive, and accepting people on here! Feel free to message me if you'd like to talk. But anyway, I hope you find what you're looking for on here. :slight_smile:
     
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    hey .. and welcome
    use EC to vent ... and explore your thoughts and get advice on all sorts of things
    people in small town communities need EC loads
     
    #14 bingostring, May 20, 2013
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    Welcome :welcome:
     
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    thnx thnx everyone! so kind!
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! I promise you, you wont regret signing up!
     
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    Welcome, mate! No need to be afraid - so long as you delete your history or use incognito :wink:
     
    #18 UndercoverGypsy, May 20, 2013
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    Welcome to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
    If it's helpful people you're after, you couldn't have come to a better place. I'm yet to meet an unkind person here.
     
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    Welcome to EC, It is a very nice place for you to talk and to discover and understand a little bit better yourself. Hope you the best!
     
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