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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by HolyCookies, May 19, 2013.

  1. HolyCookies

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    Yo. I'm new here, to this madness called EmptyCloset.. such a strange place.. So anyways i have a question for you peeps~ How was your first kiss/when was it/Who was it with/did you go out with said person afterwords?

    Mine was at homecoming on my freshman year of Highschool, i went with a (for a lack of a better word) slut (<~am i allowed to use that word?) and she kissed me after i cheered her up when someone gave her hell about being a slut. For the rest of my freshman year she led me on, and haven't seen her since. Oh the irony.(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)
     
  2. Dublin Boy

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    Hi HolyCookies :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:

    My 1st kiss with another Guy, was in a Gay pub, I had only just met him, he was wearing mascara & black clothes (I suppose you could say he was a bit Gothic looking) :slight_smile:

    Even though we were both clean shaven, I could still feel his stubble on my face when we kissed, our hands were all over each other & we were drawing a bit of attention to ourselves, it turned out he was just trying to get into my pants, when he realized that I wasn't going back to his, he dropped me & went onto someone else (I guess I wasn't ready to lose my virginity) :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi & Welcome to EC.

    First time I kissed a guy - embarrassed to say how long I waited, but I was 45. I couldn't stop smiling for days as it immediately felt so good. I immediately thought ...what a shame I waited so long for this. It just felt so normal.

    Robert
     
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    Nah, it's not that strange here. You've never been to the rest of the Internet, have you? :wink:

    Welcome to EC!
     
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    Hey! :slight_smile:

    My first kiss was with a girl in a club on my 18th birthday. We kissed and talked. Then i bought her a drink and she went off with some hot guy as soon as the drink was in her hand... Never saw her again.

    My first kiss with a guy was in a club again, i was very drunk. We had talked for a while, got on really well and kept buying each other drinks. We kissed in 2 different clubs, then he goes and kisses another guy infront of me, which winds me up and i leave. I will be meeting him again at a party soon so it could be interesting! :grin:
     
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    Hello, and welcome! :grin:

    Uhm, I had my first kiss a couple of months ago, with my ex-boyfriend. It was horrible. He was all sloppy and it was just disgusting.
    I have yet to kiss a girl, I cannot wait until that day!
     
  8. Iowan1976

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    Hi and welcome. I am still waiting for my first kiss.
     
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    Welcome!

    My first straight kiss when I was 16 with this girl I sort of dated. But it wasn't all that serious.

    My first gay kiss, well mine was when I was 19, with my 'straight' best friend who I liked... We were on holiday and it happened in our hotel room. We dated briefly after that but it ended after about a month. He dumped me, but looking back I'm glad he did. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  10. bagginses

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    hello and welcome.
    I haven't had a first kiss yet (at least lip to lip). I'm saving it.
    This one girl on valentines day told me to close my eyes and she would give me my gift. I said "no thanks" awkwardly so she kissed me on the cheek instead.
     
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    Rofl.

    Welcome to EC, dude. :slight_smile: Pleasure to meet you. ^_^
     
  12. drwinchester

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    Hey, how goes it?

    First kiss was with my best friend, later date. Did it on a dare after I beat them at table tennis. Walked along pier, kissed when we thought no one was watching. She was going in for a simple peck on lips, I was trying to go open mouth. Needless to say, needed a do-over.
     
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    Kissed in my dorm with my first boyfriend....needless to say...we did the same thing many times afterwards :wink:
     
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    You can say "slut" in the sense that nobody will ban you for it. However, slut is a bad word to use, in many of our opinions. Please see this link for why slut-shaming is bad.

    Welcome to the forum, brother.
     
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    Hey welcome to EC!
    My first kiss.. hmm.. was with one of my first serious girlfriends. I think I was 17? Yeah.. pretty sure. We were dating at the time.
     
  16. HolyCookies

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    Thanks for the tip~ ^^ I'm a bit oblivious to others' feelings, this being due to not having sensitive friends, so every now and again i offend someone on accident. :c
     
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    Hello and welcome :slight_smile:
    My first kiss was with a guy when I was 15. It was utterly disgusting...yet somehow I didn't take the hint! :bang: First kiss with a girl? earlier this year with one of my friends who is pretty loose, it didn't mean anything but it was so much better than with guys (!)
     
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    'Sup, HolyCookies.

    First of all, welcome. I'm new, too. I really wish I had found this places sooner. I just signed up last night....

    Anyhoo, yeah, first kiss. I was a kid, and he was a little older than me. Gosh, it was gross. First kiss with a girl? I was chillin' at a friend's house after work one night drinking, and the girl I liked said she wanted to find out if I was a lesbian and asked me to kiss her. I was a little shocked, but I gladly obliged. Ooooooh, it was wonderful, but she decided she wasn't a lesbian. Only girl I ever fell for, too!

    I do like kissing girls even though I'm married to a man, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I get the best of both world with him. :3