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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by hawaiianflower, May 24, 2013.

  1. Hi.

    I'm new....obviously.

    Umm...so I have realized that I am attracted to women. That would mean that I am, at the very least, bi. I'm thinking that lesbian is a good possibility.

    I am married with a kid. My husband is understanding and knows this isn't my fault. In fact, he is downright supportive. Scared, but supportive. I can talk to him and my best friend, but thought it would be helpful to join the community and be able to talk and understand myself more.

    I daydream of the day I can come out and tell everyone. It will be rough for some, but whatever. Before that happens, I need to understand myself more.

    thanks
    :smilewave
     
  2. Zoe

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    Hello Hawaiian Flower,

    Welcome to EC. Glad you're here. This is a great place to come for support and advice. We're all at different stages of coming out and accepting our sexuality, so no matter what your question(s), someone here has been through it and will have some advice.

    Good to see you here--
    Zoe
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!

    It's great that your husband is supportive of you!
     
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    Aloha hawaiianflower :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Hi and welcome to Empty Closets! :welcome:

    You're in a good position to have your husband be supportive of you. :slight_smile: One of my friends' mother is in the same position, married with 2 kids, but is happily settled with a partner, although his father wasn't very happy. It worked out great for her though, so I'm sure eventually it will for you.
     
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    Welcome to EC:

    You are very lucky to have the support of your Husband. I only hope that my wife is the same when I find the courage to open up and finally come out.

    Very Lucky. Good Luck
     
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    Welcome to EC! :grin: Hope you can find all the help you need :slight_smile:
     
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    Ohai. :grin: Welcome. Glad to hear that you've got such an awesome husband. ^_^
     
  9. dannyboy15

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    hey! welcome to ec :slight_smile:
     
  10. Thank you everyone for the warm welcome. I am very excited about finding this site and getting out of the lurker phase.
     
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    It's nice to meet you! Welcome!! :icon_bigg