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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by redneck09, Jun 5, 2013.

  1. redneck09

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    Hi I have known for a long time that I am lesbian but I haven't been able to come out because of the fact that my family is a very religious family (4 preachers in the family) and I know that if I come out they will disown me. But I'm sick of hiding behind a mask.... last night I took the first step and told my best guy friend that I am lesbian... he took it great but I don't know how to tell anyone else... this also stops me from being able to find a girl... what should I do
     
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    Hi. At least there's a support system here. I hear you, knowing real religious people. They don't understand sexuality very well. You can ask questions inside the forum categories, so check those out too.
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
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    Hi redneck09 :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    :welcome: to EC, you will find the support you need here :slight_smile: I hope you stay for a long time :slight_smile:
     
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    welcome to EC !!! Ask all the questions you want :slight_smile:
    btw from what i hear unless you're ready to actively be part of a group(meaning hang out with other gay people) your best way of meeting someone would be the internet...
     
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    hello and welcome!! :slight_smile:
     
  8. Welcome to EC!

    Are you dependent on your family?
     
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    Right now I'm having to live with them so yes I am dependent on them but I'm ready to start dating but I can't until I move out
     
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    Hi There Redneck and welcome to EC. Yes--please do look around in the forums and ask any questions you have. Everyone here is very helpful.

    And I don't know how old you are, but there's a great forum--LGBT Later In Life. Lots of people there working to tell people once they're past (and for some of us, way past), college.

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    --Zoe
     
  11. Yeah. It is tough to be in a situation where you can't come out. I hope your situation improves for you soon.
     
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    Thanks everyone
     
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    Hello and welcome! I hope you find this forum useful.
     
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    Hello! :welcome: to EC!! I know for sure you will find this community very helpful :slight_smile: I hope you stay for a long time :wink:
     
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    Welcome to EC! Hope you like it here!