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  1. Dave5432

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    I'm in my 40s, never married and now am thinking I might be gay. I have dated women in the past, but really am not interested in that anymore. There are men I find attractive.

    Kinda late to be confused about all this, I know, but I'm here and trying to figure out what to do next.
     
    #1 Dave5432, Jul 2, 2013
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you. I am glad to be here.
     
    #3 Dave5432, Jul 2, 2013
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
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    Welcome to the friendly community.
    You are not alone and have many friends here
     
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    Thank you! It is comforting to be here.
     
    #6 Dave5432, Jul 3, 2013
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    Hey, you've got a few years on me (and a few more responsibilities/attachments) but I imagine we're going through much the same thing "why did it take me so long to realise" "it seems obvious now looking back" "what if this is just a temporary thing"

    and as you said the biggest problem... "what to do now?"

    anyway, welcome
     
    #7 srslywtf, Jul 3, 2013
  8. Dave5432

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    Sounds exactly the same to me. I've got so many questions and feelings. I'm not going to ignore those any longer. And I am nervous even to talk about it, but at the same time, I'm excited to be here.
     
    #8 Dave5432, Jul 3, 2013
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    Hi and welcome!! :smilewave
     
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    Never too late, we are pleased for more humans to join our ranks. Being gay is awesome. Yayy!
     
    #10 ilovebears, Jul 3, 2013
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    I am starting to realize that. I'm hanging on for the ride!
     
    #11 Dave5432, Jul 4, 2013
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    Hi Dave :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
    #12 Dublin Boy, Jul 4, 2013
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
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