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Hi, I'm a red head. Nice to meet you :)

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Cheyenne, Jul 4, 2013.

  1. Cheyenne

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    Hello people! I'm here in hopes to understand, explore and accept myself a little more. I hate tags and stereotypes, yet I seem to believe they can define who I am. Most people know I'm bisexual/pansexual (even though I believe that 'panromantic gynephile' -please correct my grammar if this is wrong- defines my sexual orientation better) but only 2 know about my genderidentityconfusionsortof-ish .-. I feel like telling more people to call me by gender neutral pronouns and see if I'm more comfortable. I think I will, but since no one has ever really called me by them (and I haven't asked before)... Still, being called a 'he' or a 'she' doesn't really bother me. Sometimes I prefer 'he' more, though.
    Its like I'm in-between what I feel and know, and what I was thaught to believe for years. Like deep down I know my identity (even though it changes subtly) but since I know many people will still see me as my assigned gender/role/identity leads me to believe THEY can define me. :S confusing, I know. Maybe this didn't belong here, I apologize if so. Hello again, and good vibes fer ya' :3
     
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  2. Candace

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    Hello and welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
  3. Holly

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    Welcome to EC! It's a really awesome, supporting place (I was not paid by them to say that, I assure you), so if you ever have any problems it's really easy to get good advice.

    I hope you enjoy yourself here! :slight_smile:
     
  4. gavguy

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    Welcome, you will find that the more you talk to people the more you will be able to overcome your problems, Good luck
     
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    Hi :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
  7. Cheyenne

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    :') hello there people! Thanks for the welcome <3
     
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    welcome to EC.