I would welcome any thoughts or experiences re the following. I have been on anti-depressants for the last two years and was referred for therapy. I found it difficult but during the course of this I mentioned my cross-dressing at which point the therapist immediately decided I needed to attend a Gender Clinic. This took around 6 months to get an appointment and then I had to attend at 3 appointments at 2 month intervals. At the end of this, they were asking me what was I doing there. I have now been referred back for further therapy but the whole process has left me feeling very confused and distressed. I guess what I am after from therapy is coming to understand and accept myself - but I have no idea what sort of therapy I should be looking towards to achieve this. Any thoughts?
You might have a look here, the first pdf is for transgender people: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/gender-identity-expression/156085-i-just-im-kind-scared.html#4 If you have questions just ask...