Does anal hurt?

If you don't prepare properly, yes.

 

What Yosia said... I'd say it depends on your partner, along with how you prepare. Lube is a must, and I suggest condoms just because it's safer... (I don't think pre-lubricated condoms are a good idea though). If it's your first time being a bottom, make sure your partner is going to go easy on you... I'm sure somebody else will have better tips, but I figured I might as well state some of my own to bump the thread...

 

It shouldn't. Read this: http://emptyclosets.com/home/pages/resources/health/anal-sex.php

 

No, it's like one of my favorite things ever :3

 

I can vouch for this. The first time, my boyfriend and I used pre-lubed condoms, and the condoms kept sliding off his dick, which really frustrated him, and so he couldn't focus, got flaccid several times, and ended up blaming himself for it.

 

Wow that was quite... Informative, I am really scared of how my first time will be but good to know what to do if they want anal sex xD

 

i have a 6 inch toy and it feels great so it shouldn't hurt.

 

No, it's great. Anal once a day keeps the doctor away.

 

Only if done wrong.

 

Well, it can but usually that means you're doing something wrong. Loads of lube, ease up, and start slow.

 

I wouldn't think so, if you use a lubricant, then no.

 

Use lubricant, start with fingers, don't rush, and focus on making it pleasurable. Some people who do anal routinely can go without lubricant, but that's if you're doing it 6 times a day or something; yeah, that would keep you pretty loose, but we're still talking about your first ever experience. NEVER use oil-based lubricants with latex, ever. It dissolves latex. I have to be careful with lubricants, myself, because I am apparently allergic to some: this is one thing that could be a cause of discomfort, actually.

But no, if you feel pain, then go back, and do more homework on doing it properly, especially if you are a top. It's fine to risk your own health if kind of dumb, but internal tears can cause long-term problems. They could increase a person's chances of contracting HIV in the future. You do not want that on your conscience.

 

What everyone else said. If you're doing it right, it shouldn't be painful.

 

It can yea, keywords gentle and patience and lots lube

 

Dunno, im still a virgin. My boyfriend wont have sex with me yet

 

I wouldn't know :lol:

 

No, it's fucking brilliant. I love it; it's like my favorite thing. You need someone who's patient with you and lets your anal sphincter adjust. While everyone and their mom's dog is going to get on here and say "use a condom and lots of lubricant," what's really important before either of those things is you wanting to receive it, and him being attentive to the need for foreplay and to turn you on.

~ Adrienne

 

Yep yep yep, I myself love it, if done right it can be very pleasurable for you and your partner, just start off slow, you should be driving a Prius first not a Mac truck. Water based lube are best with latex condoms, make sure either of you are hiv tested, and just have fun, remember sex is about love and enjoyment, never get pressured into doing something you don't want to do.

 

I can't speak from experience, I've never been into the idea of butt stuff, even though all my friends are (straight and otherwise). Nothing against people that are, just not my cup of tea
But I have experience with losing my virginity from the other hole. What everyone else said, lube, a condom.
But also take your time. Get to know your partner and be comfortable with him. Make out and get yourselves relaxed, in the mood and very comfortable with each others bodies. What helped me the most the first time was being with somebody who I felt comfortable with and spending a lot of time making out a lot and getting each other well and truly in the mood.
If it hurts, don't be afraid to say stop and then try again another time. Let them know it's your first time.
And if you like fingering yourself now, keep that up. You'll be fine, good luck for when the day does come