Hi all! :smilewave There is a girl I've been wanting to ask out.. She works at this grocery store I go very very often and whenever I see her, I get super nervous and happy at the same time. I just can't stop smiling when she's there.. I've never actually talked to her yet. Because whenever I go there thinking to finally talk to her some more, she's so dang busy with her work. I really really want to ask her out, but... I don't know if she's interested in me at all. I don't even know if she is a lesbian or bi. My friend told me the other time that she was looking at me while I was shopping and I kind of noticed that too. :icon_redf I saw her yesterday at the store for the first time in a month or so. She wasn't at the checkout so I couldn't talk to her at all, but it was nice to see her again! I'm hoping to ask her out. It doesn't have to be a date or something if she's not into girls. I just want to get to know her. I've had some ideas like.. I could show her my interest by "casually" offering her to have one of the coffee drinks or something I just bought there. I could also hand her a note with my number on and saying something like, It'd be awesome to grab a coffee or a beer sometime.. One thing stopping me is that if her smiles were just being polite as a cashier... This grocery store is right next to my place... I can't stop going there :bang: I don't have any knowledge or experience on this asking out subject.... Any advice would be appreciated!
You could look for a few hints here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/general-support-advice/168908-flirting-girls.html#8 You're not alone in this . You could try to talk to her a bit first... then give her a note with your number And talking to her should be a bit more easy since she kind of knows you already, she has seen you a few times (*hug*)
